Manners & Etiquette
Turks are warm-hearted, but there are cultural codes you should know:
- Greeting: Handshakes are standard. Among closer acquaintances: cheek kiss (right-left). With older people: hand kiss (kiss the hand and bring it to the forehead) — shows respect.
- Shoes: Always take off shoes in private homes and mosques. Slippers are often provided.
- Nodding: Caution: throwing the head back + "tsk" sound = NO (not Yes!). Nodding as in Germany = Yes.
- Body language: The OK sign (thumb and forefinger forming a ring) can be interpreted as a vulgar gesture. Showing soles is considered rude.
- Clothing: Casual clothing is normal in coastal cities. In the interior and conservative districts, women dress more modestly (shoulders, knees). For mosques: long pants, covered shoulders, women wear a headscarf.
- Atatürk: Respect Atatürk and Turkish symbols (flag). Insulting is punishable.
- Blowing your nose: Blowing your nose at the table into a handkerchief is considered rude — briefly step away.