Politeness & Social Rules
Japan is the most polite society in the world — and that's not a cliché. Politeness permeates every aspect of daily life, from the way a business card is handed over (with both hands, with a slight bow) to the fact that Japanese put their phone on silent in the train (Manā Mōdo — "manners mode").
The Most Important Rules
- Bowing: Japan's handshake. The deeper the bow, the more respect. A slight bow (15°) is sufficient for tourists. Bow when greeting, thanking, and apologizing.
- Be quiet: Silence is observed in trains, buses, and temples. No phone calls, speak softly. Japanese find loudness impolite.
- Queueing: Japanese always stand in orderly lines — at bus stops, in front of restaurants, on the platform (marked lines on the ground). Cutting in line is a serious offense.
- Remove shoes: When entering houses, temples, ryokans, and some restaurants. Pay attention to the genkan (raised entrance area) — remove shoes before entering, put on slippers. There are separate toilet slippers!
- Blowing your nose: Blowing your nose in public is considered impolite. Sniffling is more acceptable (the opposite of Europe!).
- Business cards: If on business: hand over and receive the card with both hands, read it briefly, place it respectfully on the table — never write on it or put it in your pocket.
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As a tourist, most faux pas will be forgiven — Japanese know that foreigners don't know the rules and are lenient. But the attempt to follow the rules is rewarded with genuine joy. A simple "Sumimasen" (excuse me) opens all doors.
